Everyone starts somewhere.
No one succeeds alone.
I provide active training sessions, using Rugby as a tool, to help young people in schools and youth organisations to learn, grow, improve behaviours and overcome confidence challenges.
✔︎ Where respect comes first.
✔︎ Where trying is safe.
✔︎ Where boundaries make sense.
✔︎ Where Values are the focus
✔︎ Where discipline builds.
✔︎ Where confidence blumes.
An all too common situation:
The Issue
Despite the great care taken to create structure & a safe learning space, moments of disruption, tension, or quiet withdrawal can still occur.
The Action
Traditional measures can restore short-term calm or obliged engagement.
The Problem
Long-lasting conditions for meaningful contribution are rarely created – particularly in students struggling with confidence or self-regulation issues.
The alternative:
An experience-led approach for lasting change.
Students move within a clear, values-based framework.
Participation is central, boundaries are fair and understood, and mistakes are used for learning.
Using repeated experience and reflection, confidence and self-regulation develop. This supports meaningful,selfmotivated, long-term engagement.
Structured experiences
Structured Framework
I use a framework in which structure and development work together.
Practical Experience
Rules are not just conveyed. Learning and development are achieved by experience.
Enabling personal development
Reflection & Reintegration
I ensure reflection on behaviour. Reintegration into the group is done without any stigma or lasting negative impact.
Understanding consequences
I ensure that consequences are directly associated with actions that transgress boundaries.
Energy release
Energy can be released constructively where safety is paramount and progression is carefully managed.
Clear Boundaries
I define clear, fair boundaries. I take time to ensure that there is an understanding of both the what and the why
The right environment
I generate an environment where confidence is developed gradually.
A Safe Space to try
Effort before outcome
My focus is continually on effort before outcome.
No Fear of Failure
I ensure a safe space where trying is paramount, without fear of mishaps.
There is only 1 “mistake” that can be made: not to try
Lasting change from within
Engagement
Students begin to understand themselves & their actions. Their role within the group becomes clearer. Lasting engagement grows.
Motivating change
Behaviour is not just managed or controlled by discipline. Change is driven by intrinsic motivation to adhere to boundaries.
Developing confidence
Confidence is not forced. Self-belief is nurtured in a safe environment where trying is the measure of success.
Rugby is not the goal. Rugby is the tool.
Sessions are:
Values-led, not performance-driven
Bespoke designed according to age & ability.
Non-contact unless requested
Focused on sports transferable skills and interpersonal development
Structure & Values
I use structure and the Rugby Values to create calm, focused training spaces within the school system
Sessions can be run as part of the curriculum or an All Day School System programme.
I can provide training either in English or German.
Rugby provides the structure. Development is the outcome.
Passion
My drive to help others develop themselves combines with a lifelong passion for the amazing sport that is Rugby.
Organisation
A background in engineering project management means organisation and planning sit at the core of my work.
Respect: the foundation of the group.
Respect is given to every student. Mutual respect for one another underpins all interaction.
Continuous improvement
All planning starts with a review of a previous session, critically assessing the successes and opportunitites to improve
A calm, professional presence
I am Rugby Dave
The Method
Identify goals, needs and expectations
Understand the Group
Plan the programme.
Trial sessions, goal refinement, action plan
Train and
Develop
Value focussed training sessions promoting personal development
Review, reflect & optimise.
The Options
Trial Sessions
Experience the impact of value-led rugby training.
No commitments & free of charge.
Assess interest within the group with no obligations.
Extended Development Programmes
Longer-term training blocks for lasting change.
Solution for All-Day or After-School programmes.
Bespoke designed programmes for specific issues.
Projects and Special Events
School festivals, project weeks, or themed days.
Interesting & engaging active sessions.
Full event organisation & delivery
Club Collaboration & Pathway Support
Bridging the gap between school and club.
Growing club visibility in a wider network.
Promotion of special events (Try Out, Summer Camps).
Next Step
No Commitment - Simply try:
Arrange a free, no obligation trail session.
Understanding needs
Want to discuss any specific needs or concerns? An online or in person appointment is welcomed.
Contact
Telephone :
+49 (0) 172 841 3511
Email:
Dave.Rumary@R5Rugby.com
Address:
Waldstr. 2,
85540 Haar,
Germany